{"id":2491,"date":"2019-08-19T12:54:27","date_gmt":"2019-08-19T12:54:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/highervibrationsnow.com\/?p=2491"},"modified":"2019-08-19T12:54:27","modified_gmt":"2019-08-19T12:54:27","slug":"how-do-i-turn-around-struggling-with-letting-go-of-a-long-term-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/highervibrationsnow.com\/?p=2491","title":{"rendered":"How do I turn around struggling with letting go of a long term relationship?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Hi Brian I need your guidance on a matter I&#8217;m going through. My partner of 10 yrs has cut me off completely. I&#8217;m trying 2 change my thoughts but finding it difficult. I feel betrayed and hurt. How do I turn this around? Other aspects in my life are good. But I&#8217;m struggling with this part.  Thank you for your guidance as always much needed.     <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> Let me ask you some questions that may\nseem redundant but I think it&#8217;s just a matter of you reconnecting\nwith what you know to get relief. There are few more suggestions\nunder the questions. \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you believe you are the creator of\nyour reality? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you believe that everything that\nhappens in your life is the result of the vibration that you offered?\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you believe that when you experience\nsomething you don&#8217;t like it causes you to know what you do want? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you believe that Source, the larger\npart of you is listening to your unwanted experiences and knowing\nwhat you want? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you believe that Source is granting\nthe new improved experience instantly upon knowing what you want? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you believe therefore that an\nunwanted experience is the seed for you to receive the new improved\nexperience? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you believe that it is natural for\nus to have unwanted experiences as the seeds to the new expanded life\nexperience? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you believe that if you focus your\nthoughts on the feeling of new experience we want (as the result of\nthe old experience we did not like), that it will manifest? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you believe that if you focus your\nthoughts on any thing that feels high vibration even if it is not\nabout the improved experience, that that improved experience will\nmanifest all the same? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you believe that Source knows what\nyou want and where it is and how to get you to it easily and with fun\nand joy? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you believe that the way that you\ncan connect with the path that leads you to your desire is by\noffering a high vibration to the law of attraction? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you believe that it does not matter\nwhy or how you achieve a high vibration, that you are a match to your\ndesire and it manifests? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you know you can achieve a high\nvibration by thinking about the positive aspects of your life, what&#8217;s\nworking, what you can be thankful for, what you appreciate? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you know that if you focus on the\nparts of your life that are working, and do feel good, that will\ncause all parts of your life to work, even the ones that are not\npresently working? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you know that your mind is fickle\nand moves around and you will find yourself in a high vibration\nnaturally with no effort and then you can milk that moment and get\nhigh vibe momentum going? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you believe that you are worthy and\ndeserving of a completely fulfilling life in all ways? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you believe you get to choose the\nthought you want? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you know it can be harder to choose\na good feeling thought when you have negative momentum going? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you know if you speak more generally\nto yourself, identify with the simple truths about yourself, life and\nthe creative process that you can slow negative momentum and cause\nyour vibe to rise? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you believe you came here to have\nexperiences and discover your preferences, and that Source creates\nthem and then you realize them by allowing them to manifest via a\nhigh vibration? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you believe this cycle of discovery\nof what is wanted is eternal and that we can be, do and have what we\nwant? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you believe you are the creator of\nyour reality? \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can also play the \u201cis that true\ngame\u201d. So when you are feeling badly, ask yourself, what am I\nthinking that has me receiving this low vibe emotion. Now is that\nthought true. Is that thought in alignment with my power as a\ncreator, is that thought in alignment with my unlimited access to\nunlimited abundance, is that thought in alignment with my birthright\nto deserving the very best, and with my natural worthiness of all\ngood things. In all cases you find the answer is no. Then you ask\nyourself, what is true. Then you affirm what is true, which you can\nget from my articles the truth about you and the truth about\nabundance. \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Other statements you can make include,\nthank you for letting me know where my vibe is, thank you for helping\nme to be clear about what I want, thank you for this experience,\nsomething better is now on the way I could think that thought, or I\ncould think this thought, looks like I got some more work to do on my\nvibration, this is just vibrational feedback, I like it when . . .\nThere is nothing gone wrong here, it&#8217;s exactly as my vibration has\nrequested and I am working on it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hi Brian I need your guidance on a matter I&#8217;m going through. My partner of 10 yrs has cut me off completely. I&#8217;m trying 2 change my thoughts but finding it difficult. I feel betrayed and hurt. How do I turn this around? Other aspects in my life are good. 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