Here is a scenario where a person is\nlooking for resolve to a past experience, to let it go and be free of\nit 1) so it doesn’t keep getting in their thoughts and feeling low\nvibe and 2) so as not to attract more like it<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hi\nBrian I am chuckling to myself as I just caught myself before getting\ninto a low vibe. This was about an unpaid debt. The challenge here is\nI borrowed the money from my Dad some time back to invest it in the\nbusiness that never was with the relationship that is now over. I\nwant to let it go completely and not follow the guy for the money or\nindeed maintain contact as for some reason that whole situation still\nirritates me when I think too much about it. Thing is I do want to\nrepay my Dad the money myself. Is the idea to see myself repaying\nthis debt completely and minus the fellow? Some part of me deep down\nis still annoyed that he gets away with not paying but sometimes I am\nokay with that detachment as I have moved on. I can laugh about it\nnow because there was a time it was a real thorn in the flesh..I\nwould just like to get clear in my mind and totally move past it.\nFunny whenever I am typing and asking you about this particular\nsituation, I know with absolute certainty that I need to let it go.\nIt’s almost comical now actually. How can I move past it without\nsometimes feeling irritated that I was somehow duped and actually\ninvite this whole situation into my reality in the first place? What\nwas the lesson there? Is it unworthiness? And if that was in the past\nand I am now in a better place mentally, how do I ensure it never\nhappens again..some underlying fear certainly still lurks there and I\njust wonder as it’s now coming onto two years since the whole thing\nunfolded.. sorry\nI keep going back to this..do you sometimes wonder why it takes some\nof us so long to move on from low vibe situations \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n
My Response \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Why does it take so long to let go of\nold experiences that really stung, why do they pop into mind and stir\nup low vibe thoughts. 2 reasons. 1) Faulty beliefs and the\nexperiences related to them have momentum, they are like a raging\nfire of some degree. 2) we are not practiced enough on how \/ why to\nlet them go- to put the fire. So the resolve to this is 1) to\nunderstand energy momentum and 2) understand and know how to diffuse\nit, redirect it, dissolve negative energy momentum \u2013 put water on\nit and put it out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Be aware that faulty beliefs about an\nexperience, they started up from accepting faulty information and\nlooking at things from a faulty perspective. Let me explain,\ntypically we take on the beliefs that people do things to us that we\ndon’t like and we are not responsible for any of it. We tend to\nbelieve that people insert themselves into our life randomly or in\nsome way that we have no say and that feels powerless and all low\nvibe, we feel vulnerable and intruded upon, our trust betrayed, more\nlow vibe feeding that faulty active negative momentum. We also tend\nto beat our self up quite regularly when something does not go well\nand that is more low vibe that keeps those faulty beliefs raging and\nactive. You can see how we tend to throw gas on the fire rather\nthan water. It is water we want to learn to through on the fire. \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So let’s put this into the real life\nexample. When he did not repay the money, that brought thoughts\nfrom your faulty beliefs like, some self beating up as follows, \u201c\nhow could I be so stupid, why did I let him take advantage of me, why\ndidn’t I see this coming, why am I so weak, I let my father down\u201d\nand the list goes on and on. Then there is another conversation\nthat goes like this \u201che betrayed my trust, I gave him honesty and\nhe . . . he is a thief, no good swindler, why didn’t he treat me with\nrespect blah blah blah\u201d It may even get into, men are . . . \nAll very low vibe, all feeding the fire with gas. A perfect formula\nto attract more of the same. \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Further, as we let that stream of\nthoughts go unchecked or without redirecting it (using our high vibe\nthought tool box), the law of attraction is not our friend at all,\nbecause it keeps bringing more thoughts like it. We can get to\nthe point where only a nap \/ sleep will give us enough break from it,\nthat we get a shot at starting new momentum. \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So in knowing this is how it works give\nyou some confidence and control back, that this is all about your\nvibration, you control your vibration and therefore you are in charge\nof your life. \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So how do we through water on this fire\nso it goes out and never bothers us again. Well, when a thought\nabout an experience shows up in a negative way. We say things like,\nwell I was a vibrational match to that. We take responsibility for\nbeing there in that way, no blame, empowerment is what we are after\nand we can’t be empowered if we are pinning our life happenings on\nothers. Then continue, this is just a manifestation from energy I\nwas offering \/ have active. Nothing more, nothing less. Then say,\nwell I could be thankful for that, being made aware of my vibration. \n Obviously from that experience I have some more work to do to get my\nvibe in alignment with what I want. And speaking of that, another\nthing I can be thankful for is that I receive clarity about what I\nreally want. I now know more clearly than ever, the experience I\nwant is . . . . I can be thankful for that too. Well my guidance\nsystem is working, I have awareness about my active vibe and I got\nclarity about what I want, that’s pretty darn good. Now all I have\nto do is keep myself focused on thoughts that match the vibration of\nmy desired experience and that is what will manifest. If I keep\nthe other thoughts going I know it will bring more of the same\nunwanted. There is no reason to do that. I had a clarifying and\nexpanding experience and now I am going to go to it. \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You see when you change your\nperspective from a person being a perpetrator to a helper, to a\ndeliverer of your vibe, it changes everything. Further you know you\nare the creator of your reality and no matter what has happened in\nyour life, you can be, do and have what you want, no one can take\nanything from you or stop you from having the experiences you want,\njust you. And this person was helping you to get out of your own\nway by showing you that you have a low vibe active in your energy. \nMy dialogue above helps you to diffuse that active energy and attract\nwhat you want. Further dialogue that helps is to know your\nworthiness, obviously, since you are the creator of your reality you\nare plenty worthy and deserving. The first module of my book is\nfocused on learning the truth about yourself and your natural\nworthiness and deserving, in fact the creative process, your energy\nnature and why you are here. Once you embrace this, there will be\nno question about your worthiness. You see every experience is\nwhat you want or a clarifying experience of what you want, so you\ncan’t fail, you can’t get it wrong, it’s just not possible according\nto the laws and workings of this universe. \n<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In terms of repaying your father, sure\nyou can visualize that but quite frankly that is a desire and so it\nis already done vibrationally, so you don’t have to ask, but your\nvisualizing can put you in the joy of the experience of repaying and\nthat will allow it to manifest. Anything you can do to release\nresistance about it will be helpful as well. So if you have not had\na conversation with him, you could say something like, I am going to\nrepay you, I don’t know exactly when but I really appreciated that\nyou lent me the money and it is a top priority for me to repay it. \nAnything you can do that will help you not beat yourself up over it\nis really good. You want to shed any guilt or any low vibes. So\nbeing honest about your intentions, whether they believe you our not\ncould be a soothing inspired action for you. \n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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