I was moving forward but now stalled on my dreams?

Hi Brian, it’s be a few months now since I’ve posted in the group and I wanted to update you. This is indeed a journey… If you recall, my husband and I wanted to find new jobs that fit our lifestyle so that we could release immediate money concerns (like living off of savings) to be able to more easily maintain high vibes and let Source’s path for us unfold. So, it worked. Jointly, we are making more money than we ever have in our lives. It’s a comfort because now I don’t need to give money a second thought when providing for our kids or buying treats for ourselves. Our obligations are met easily. The positions also have elements that we wanted. My job is remote so I get to work from home and my husbands job is a five minute drive in a top managerial role for a family-run restaurant (he was a chef before). He’s very respected and given autonomy to run and improve the restaurant. He’s getting paid a salary with all sorts of benefits (which is unheard of in the restaurant business). And he managed to land the job just by walking in to the restaurant with the resume one day. They weren’t even hiring.

But, there’s a but. My subconscious is on a rampage. It has let loose a torrent of faulty beliefs like 1) this isn’t what your life was supposed to be, working for a salary in marketing 2) this is it, you’ll have to ask permission to take time off from now on 3) what could you possibly do independently now to set yourself free. You’re getting older and do you have time and will to start a new project that might not take off and really provide for the family. 4) I’m feeling trapped again, like I have in every job I’ve had because I’m not doing what I love (and I’m not doing what I love because how could it possibly pay the bills or I don’t have enough start-up to do what I love).

Anyway, exhausted yet? I know I am and I’ve only had the job for six weeks. It’s frustrating because I ASKED for this! I said I have a job that pays the bills and allows me to feel financially comfortable so we can move on to bigger dreams. Not only does it pay the bills it’s almost double what we need but I’m borderline miserable. I think I stopped believing in my journey. Anyway, I tell you this so maybe you can address the group for others who’ve had some success, but not the full dream yet. And feel themselves slipping backwards. I hope all is well with you and that you continue to be enthralled with life.

MY RESPONSE

OK, well you set an intention around the money thing and you got it, so we know you have no resistance there plus it also helps release resistance around money so all good, path of least resistance. The less resistance, the more all your desires can flow. It also is a great demonstration that you are in the driver seat, the cause of your life. Building trust is important – it’s high vibe.

Now your subconscious is on a rampage . . . well yours and everyone else is because the limiting beliefs that have active momentum, they are constantly sending out signals in the forms of thoughts in your head and conditions in your life. This is really the thing to set us all free, releasing those faulty beliefs, turning away from them time after time until they fade away.

So you have a strong desire, and we know Source has created it and it is cued up for you to receive. But we also know you have these limiting beliefs that are causing you to think low vibe when you think about that desire. So that is what is standing between you and the manifestation of this desire, as it is causing misalignment. How to get around this?

Well the first thing is to realize that when the faulty belief throws up a thought, it does not feel good because that is Source letting you know it’s faulty, not true. In that way the not feel good is your friend, it’s telling you, its time to come up with a new thought on the matter, one that is true, one that is in agreement with the way Source sees it. So let’s take the first one “this isn’t what your life . . . “ That’s actually a true statement, not a faulty belief, that is something Source would say. Source is saying You don’t have to settle for this, you know that, you know you have asked for what you want, you know I have heard you, you know I have set it all up so yes I agree this isn’t what your life is supposed to be, but as you accept what is, as you don’t push up against it, as you see the positive aspects of it, as you can see how it helps your life work now and as you disregard all of the down sides, well then you will feel satisfied with what is, you will enjoy the journey and you will feel eager for what is on the way. Source would say, isn’t it nice that you ask for financial relief and you allowed yourself to receive what I setup for you, doesn’t that feel like relief, doesn’t that make your days more comfortable and enjoyable. Is this not an easier path to walk now that you have your financial stability. Now you just got to keep walking the path, keep enjoying what I have setup up, trust that I have a path setup for you that will take you right to where you want to be easily and effortlessly just like the financial piece coming to you. I know what you want, where it is and I know how to get it to you (and you to it). The question really is, do you trust me. The thing is, it’s not a matter of when it’s going to happen, it’s happening, it’s all around you and as you tune into the frequency of it, you get to see more and more of it.

Further more, I also know about your faulty beliefs and you also have to trust me that I will lead you around those as well. You just give the high vibe signal to the law of attraction and it will show you the path that I have setup. Don’t concern yourself with the timing, your ship will not leave without you.

The next faulty belief “you will have to ask for permission to take time off . . .” That does not feel good and again that means it is not true, it is not accurate with your power as the creator of your reality and not in alignment with what you want. If you want time freedom, it’s done now and waiting for you to receive it. All you need to focus on is the what you want (and why) and trust the how, where, when and who to Source. Now there is that trust thing again. Trust is what makes the worry, fear and doubt go away. When a faulty thought like that comes you can even say Ah thank you, you just reminded me of what I want, that it is on the way and I only have to tune into it to allow it. I only have to manifest the feeling of it (in any way I can) so it can come, I don’t have to make anything happen or figure anything out. Make those faulty thoughts your friends and they can help you. If you push up against them, not so much. They really are helping you to focus and as you trust the process, you know that even when you can’t see things happening, they are happening. Look at what you said about the way your husband got the job, you got to know Source is working for you setting it all up. Before this happened you wouldn’t have guessed in a million years how he would have come up such a job and we never can because that is the job of Source, our conscious mind is not setup for that part of the creative process. So you have lots of evidence that things are working out for you and Source is behind you setting it all up.

Belief #3 about what could you possibly do . . . again that thought feels “bad” because your conscious mind does not have the ability to answer that question, it does have the ability to receive the answer to that question though. The “bad” feel is again telling you that the thought is inaccurate and it most certainly is because you are not going to figure out the how. You have to relax into receiving the how, you have to know that Source got a path all carved out that is beyond your wildest imagination because your imagination, your conjuring of thought just can’t figure out how this can happen, it’s not meant to. Your conscious mind is setup to receive the how and so your job is to put it into the receiving mode. That means relax, chill out, trust, accept, detach, let it happen.

Belief #4 feeling trapped. We know that it is not possible for you to be trapped other than with your chosen thoughts about it, another inaccurate belief. What is trapping you is your thoughts about your circumstances, you are pushing up against them, not accepting your current world reality as just where you are on the path, you are not allowing yourself to feel present moment satisfaction and eagerness for what is coming, you are focused on the negative aspects when what you must do is focus on the positive aspects, what is working, and what you are grateful for. This is how you chill out, relax and let it come. Talk about the good of your life now, play with your story, the one you see in your minds eye that you want to allow into your experience. Trust the process and use these faulty belief thoughts as your friends to remind you to go back and refocus on the positive aspects, your story and trusting the process. If you do this you will be tuned into your desire and it can come.

If you compare this situation to a hen sitting on an egg to hatch it, it would be like the hen getting off the egg and saying why is my egg not hatching. It has to be incubated and your desires are the same. Despite conditions you have to incubate your desire with high vibe energy. But it seems you may have the mind set that many have and that is I don’t want to wait for the egg to crack open, I want it now thinking it is the desire that will fulfill you but it won’t, it’s actually the path, the journey. Because even after you receive the desire, you will want to expand on it and off you go again, that is the natural way of life. The phrase I will be happy when I . . . that is one of the biggest reasons for unhappiness. Happiness is a frame of mind in the present moment despite conditions. So learning to enjoy the journey . . . the desire really is an excuse for the journey, that is where all the joy is. The realization of the desire is a brief experience until you go on the next journey.

Now all this being said, when you say “I think I stopped believing in my journey”, “I am exhausted”. That may be the best thing you said in the whole note. Why, because you can’t give up on your dream, it’s still there cued up for you to receive, it’s in the room with your right now swirling around in energy frequencies waiting to manifest, but what you can give up is the resistance and when you say “I think I stopped believing in my journey”, what you are really saying is I am giving up the resistance and now you can actually start to receive the impulses that will take you there because there is nothing blocking the path.

So you can do this in one of two ways. You can go ahead and give up the struggle, say I don’t care about it any more, I am done with it. I will find pleasure in what I am doing, I will be grateful and satisfied in my family, in that I have the finances to do the things I am doing. I am going to see the upside of everything and be at peace. Now you are in the receiving mode for what you want. OR you can trust the process, talk about your dream, focus on positive aspects of current life and use your faulty beliefs as you friends to stay focused. Either plan is equally effective because both are void of resistance and when there is not resistance there is manifestation of desire.

*** I did get a response back that indicated with the manifestation of the money / jobs there was less practicing of high vibe thinking which means there was more space for old faulty beliefs to flare up and sway the vibration as was seen. So this is a great lesson, you can’t take your focus off the high vibe training, you can’t stop tuning the the frequency of your desires, even as things start to go well, the old faulty belief energy will flare up. At some point, they will simply not be an issue but you want to make sure you got a high level of satisfaction in your life and really feel that your dominate vibe is a habit. Then it comes naturally without thinking about it.

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