How can I stop others from controlling or trying to control me?

Question – I always find myself in situations where I feel powerless and exactly the same feelings of having no control over my life somehow by others , people I know , family , friends and so on , try to control me by telling me what to do , and i feel angry and resist the idea of being free.
Any advises?
Excellent question. First your growing up experience is something many can relate to in one way or another. These experiences are what form the faulty beliefs we have about life and self and those beliefs of course influence our thinking, our vibration and keep us attracting the same old same old throughout our life.
 
So you have energy momentum around not being free but being controlled. Now we know that it is not true that you are not free because we know who you are, you are the creator of your reality. So how do you take charge of your power to manifest more of what you want and less of what you do not.
 
When you come across a situation where you feel controlled and you (choose) to feel angry, you are sending out the vibration that attracts more of it. So you have to stop reacting and pushing against that manifestation. If you realize that it is there because it is a manifestation of your energy, then you can start to soften the situation in that people are not doing things to control you, they are only showing up in your life to show you your vibration. Ah, that should give some relief because then you realize, hey I just got to offer a new vibe and a new situation will manifest, one that I like.
 
So these situations that feel controlling, they make you want freedom, independence and that of course is your natural state so it feels good to think about being free and independent. To manifest such situations you must feel these vibrations of freedom and independence. The next time a controlling situation happens, stop, don’t react with anger, say to yourself, thanks for reminding me that this is the moment I need to shift my thinking and my vibration. No I don’t like being controlled, what I like is the feeling of freedom, it feels nice to make my own choices, I like my independence. I like knowing I am the creator of my reality, I like knowing that when something shows up that I don’t like, it’s just my energy manifesting and I like knowing that it helps me to know what I like, and I like knowing that when I change my focus to the emotional satisfaction of what I want it manifests and the old manifestations go away. I know it takes repetition, to continuously have a positive response to those situations I don’t like. Each time I do this, it disempowers them and empowers the situation I want. It may take a number of weeks but I like knowing as I stick with it, the energy does shift and once my new energy becomes dominant then my new experience will be one I like. People will respect my decisions, they will support me, they will ask me my opinion and value my point of view, they will want me to do the things that feel good to me. I like that, I like how that sounds, I like how that feels. That is the life I want.
 
So to change this life experience, you must offer a positive response to what you don’t like, change your focus and tell the new story until it is the dominant energy, then that life experience you want will manifest.
 
To understand this more fully see my article the law of attraction cycle. It explains the process of changing energy to manifest new experiences very thoroughly and with a diagram to help with the understanding. http://highervibrationsnow.com/?page_id=1071

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